By Phil Taylor.
Those were the words Ben used, but at the time they seemed to pass through some sort of internal parental translator. What I heard was, "I’d like to subject my brain to repeated trauma and expose my body to increased risk of broken bones, arthritis and paralysis.”
My wife and I needed time to process Ben’s declaration, which didn’t surprise him. "I thought you would probably say no right off the bat, and then I would have to give you all the reasons you should change your mind,” my son, now a junior at Oregon, said recently when he granted his old man an exclusive interview. "I figured it was going to be more than one conversation.”
He was right. For some parents, the question of whether to allow their sons to play football is an easy yes, for others it is a don’t-even-think-about-it no. I know one dad who ripped up his son’s football parental consent forms the first time the boy brought them home, then put a second set in the shredder when his son tried again a week later. But most of us lie between the extremes; we need to wrestle with the issue for a while deciding. The potential downside of saying yes grew even darker with the news that ALL-Pro linebacker Junior Seau, 43, had committed suicide, an act that may well have been related to the constant cranial pounding of his 20-year NFL career.
My wife and I considered Ben’s request, I thought about parents’ obligation to protect their children but also to prepare them. I wanted to keep my son from undue risk of injury, but I didn’t want to coddle him so much that he’d never learn how to take a hit, literally or figuratively.
And so, we have allowed him to play football. And I think every parent should consider about this matter for their children.
The author is a senior writer with Sports Illustrated, US.
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